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I read recently – you break your own heart by telling yourself to give it another shot when you already know it’s time to let go.

I brushed so much under the carpet and I forgave so much because of “what he was going through”. Sometimes you just can’t help people no matter how available you are or how much you try. I wish I had recognised that sooner because I could have saved myself a lot of pain and I should have recognised all the thing I was going through sooner.

I hope everything works out for you. Be kind to yourself.